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Friday, April 29, 2011


This was something that my friend Trisha and I have talked about doing for some time now.  I was going to post on Facebook via the message option and then along came this blog.

We talked about listing what we are looking for in a person, put in list form and map it out.

These are in no particular order and are attributes and or items, if possessed, would be a deal breaker.  I realize that no one will have all of the following, but it may give you some insight into my inner workings.  I am leaving out items like an age range, height, and weight.  You’ll understand when you read it.

So without further Adieu, I present to you THE LIST….

-A Christian.  One who believes in the Lord and Christ regardless of what religion they are
-Have good morals and values at their core
-Loves kids
-Respects others
-Is compassionate and sincere
-Can be flirty and sexy
-Loves to laugh, in public or alone
-Confidence….(a really big thing for me)
-Comfortable for who they are in any situation
-Not jealous or possessive
-Accepting of others and their flaws
-Non smoker (major deal breaker if you do…will go no further)
-Likes to kiss, hold hands, and make out
-A friend first, then a lover, partner and best friend
-Enjoys long walks, the outdoors, hiking, the beach, or mountains
-Likes to try new things, not easily bored
-Not manipulative
-Comfortable in sweats and a T as they are dressed to the 9’s
-Knows their priorities in life and what they want
-Is romantic and will let the man take the lead…occasionally
-Enjoys movies
-Is honest and genuine, no pretense
-Likes to snuggle….enjoys hugs
-Can be intense about the right things
-Enjoys the small things in life and is optimistic
-Stays active and takes care of themselves
-Can get lost in my eyes and potentially see forever
-Enjoys sports
-Has a little bit of geek inside
-Accepts me for who I am
-Wants to be with a genuinely nice guy

Oh, I am sure there are more and maybe I will add to it.  But for now, this is THE LIST.  Any questions? 


  1. Okay, so if I have MOST of those things, where do I apply? ;-) Yeah, I know, you never look back, and you aren't bald yet, so it would never work, LOL!

  2. Hmm. Looks a lot like my list and who I am with one exception.